Posts by BlackSwan of Memphis

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Hope you will stay in contact after JWD closes...

by SnakesInTheTower in

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i hope that after this board shuts down that many of you that i have met in person, talked to on the phone, emailed, pmd, chatted with on im...will still want to stay in touch.

it has been difficult keeping screen names and email addresses, phone numbers etc.

straight.

What Will You Do When It's Gone?

by sweet pea in

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for me and my addiction to jwd it'll mean i've more time to go and get a life!.

more time for .

1. the podlets.

BlackSwan of Memphis

find another discussion board to haunt

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Tell Simon why we want JWD to stay... our apprecaition...

by burningbridges in

ok, i'll start, maybe if we can all tell simon our reason why this site means so much to us he will reconsider and leave it here.

this site has given me the courage to speak out.

i used to be ashamed of my history with the witnesses.

BlackSwan of Memphis

I understand Why you need a break, why it's time to go.

If you were to give any weight to what we are thinking....

The good this place does far outweighs the moronic asses who get off on posting porn and slimey crap.

I know how many exjw sites have come and gone in the last couple of years. When this place goes, I think many JW's will feel like it's a "sign" they are winning and those who are questioning and need the same support I needed may not have a place to go that will be as active as this place.

One of the things I have absolutely loved about this place is it's constant activity. If you need something, someone is there.

This is honestly like "Cheers". A place to go to be with people who 'get it'.

BUT like I said, I understand why you and Angharad feel strongly it's time to go.

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Any Buddhists here?

by DevonMcBride in

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i recently started studying buddhism and found it to be very deep but most of it makes a lot of sense.

any other buddhists posting here.

BlackSwan of Memphis

A link to a Buddhist temple near my house.

http://www.glbvihara.org/

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Any Buddhists here?

by DevonMcBride in

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i recently started studying buddhism and found it to be very deep but most of it makes a lot of sense.

any other buddhists posting here.

BlackSwan of Memphis

I didn't mean to offend any one. I just would want that every one could feel what I do. Just open you're heart !

I don't know that you did offend anyone ;) You sorta hit the nail on the head....it's a Feeling that you have that you wish to share.

Converting the world is the work we've been called to by our Lord.

And?

I don't know about them. I just know what Jesus has done for me in my life. I wish every one could feel that !

Well...okay a lot of people have done the "saved by Jesus" thing along with church and the general feeling that you described above. Then they become Buddhist or Pagan or Hindu or <<gasp>> atheist ;) I.e. some people HAVE done what you said and have still followed other paths that make more sense to them. You might believe that Jesus is the only way, that doesn't make it true. You might have a great feeling from your experience, but others have not had that experience and so are enjoying an alternate path. If it works for you, super. But telling someone else it's the ONLY way wellllllllllllllllllll not so super. Either way, it's always only my opinion which you will take or leave. And either way, welcome to jwd.

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Any Buddhists here?

by DevonMcBride in

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i recently started studying buddhism and found it to be very deep but most of it makes a lot of sense.

any other buddhists posting here.

BlackSwan of Memphis

There is one way. JESUS ! All other paths lead off into damnation. Be careful freinds ! I know we were all hurt very bad by the terrible cult of Jehovah Witnesses but don't leave Christ. He wants you !

That is YOUR way and it sounds like it works for you. For many others, they take a different path to spirituality. Devon: I'm not Buddhist. Not anything right now. However, the principles of Buddhism stick with me on a day to day basis. What form are you looking at? From what I gather there are several different 'kinds'. I guess I would say branches of it. Just curious.

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Jon and Kate Plus 8

by changeling in

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who loves this show?.

who thinks kate is mean to jon?.

who thinks maddy needs therapy so she does not end up a pregnant, teenged, crack hore?.

BlackSwan of Memphis

I think its cool because few shows have any real depictions of asian men married to caucasian women.
That being said, just because you have a bunch of kids doesnt mean you deserve on-air recognition for it.
- Preston

Hey there toots a) I agree. I must admit that this was one of my first thoughts when I saw the show the first time. I thought 'Cool, an Asian guy.' There seems to be, still, so many stereotypes out there, this was refreshing. b) HEH YES I agree with this as well. I have yet to figure out Why they have a television show about these people. The one where they had the mammoth party for the kids, well imo mammoth, left me thinking.....so what? Then again, I'm still looking at Survivor like "So What?".

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They've been comin' around the neighborhood

by BlackSwan of Memphis in

and they caught me at home a couple of times.. a couple of months ago, two nice, very young men (teens) came to the door.. my dog was barking, my older one was walking around without clothes and all i could think of was "i'm soooooooooooo not up for this today.".

so, i said "yeah, uhm, i'm an apostate.

" the big grins dissapeared and they walked away.. the other day, my bathroom plumbing is getting rerigged and there's a ton of stuff going on, i'm dripping wet from the pool and two woman come up my drive..

BlackSwan of Memphis

Next time they come around give them my address.
I would like for them to explain some of their doctrines to me...
Being NO Part of the world
The YMCA
The UN
The Jehovah's Witnesses haven't knocked on my door or left any of their good literature here for over 4 years.
Come to think about it...
That's about the time my name was announced one Thursday night, Hmmmmmm.

Sure I can do that. Send it along to me and I'll send it to them and heh since they're usually standing right by my mailbox I can stick some stamps on them and tuck them in, the postman will pick them up.

So, I said "Yeah, uhm, I'm an apostate." The big grins dissapeared and they walked away.
Bravo good madam bravo
ROFLMBAO

Why thank you my dear

The dubs must be lazy in Charlotte, going on 5 years now and I have only had one JW run in. The one time it did happen I wasn't at my house. I keep waiting for the knock one Saturday morning but it never comes.

They probably walk by your house and point and say..."oooooh there's Burgertime's house. I heard he made a pact with the devil..."

Yeah, it's funny. I KNOW these people KNOW I'm the big bad wolf, er apostate. But still it seems like they come.I think they think I've gone soft. Heh, in my old age, I guess I have.

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They've been comin' around the neighborhood

by BlackSwan of Memphis in

and they caught me at home a couple of times.. a couple of months ago, two nice, very young men (teens) came to the door.. my dog was barking, my older one was walking around without clothes and all i could think of was "i'm soooooooooooo not up for this today.".

so, i said "yeah, uhm, i'm an apostate.

" the big grins dissapeared and they walked away.. the other day, my bathroom plumbing is getting rerigged and there's a ton of stuff going on, i'm dripping wet from the pool and two woman come up my drive..

BlackSwan of Memphis

Maybe with the dumbing down of society and the JW's too, maybe they don't understand what the word "solicitors" means.
You might have to add an extra sign saying " * this means anyone trying to promote products or ideas ".

LOL

Not a bad idea. I have to say it really amazes me the way they can look at it and knock anyway.

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They've been comin' around the neighborhood

by BlackSwan of Memphis in

and they caught me at home a couple of times.. a couple of months ago, two nice, very young men (teens) came to the door.. my dog was barking, my older one was walking around without clothes and all i could think of was "i'm soooooooooooo not up for this today.".

so, i said "yeah, uhm, i'm an apostate.

" the big grins dissapeared and they walked away.. the other day, my bathroom plumbing is getting rerigged and there's a ton of stuff going on, i'm dripping wet from the pool and two woman come up my drive..

BlackSwan of Memphis

YOU COULDN'T SEND ME AROUND MY WAY

huh?

If the JWs come to my door I am polite and tell them I'm not interested and have them leave as quickly as possible. I could argue with them but they took years from my life, why even give them a few more minutes of my time? Actually, if it's witnesses or someone else I don't want to talk to, I don't even bother answering the door. Eventually they go away.

I have a younger cousin (never a witness) who used to play Black Sabbath music and act crazy when the JWs came to his door. It was funny, but yes, just reinforces the JWs belief structure.

Exactly. I hear of people who talk about showing up at the door naked or doing something absurd, and I think...if I were a witness, that would reinforce my beliefs.

I love it. Heh, you should have chased them down the street. It would have given them nightmares for weeks.

Heh, yeaaah, that would have. Ultimately keeping them IN the organization, as they would be terrified for years to come that they would end up just like the crazy apostate that lives on that street.

i live so rurally that there is no other collective
of dubs likely to ever knock on this door, since
we all attended the same KH... no fun for me, i see!

Sheesh, I think I need to move. Ya know, the thing that annoys me MORE is that I HAVE a sign on my door, that came from the city that prohibits solicitors. And wouldn't ya know, in a one month span AT&T visited our home, knocking on our door 4 times. That doesn't count the other solicitors who have stood on my porch. Good grief! I swear the next time they show up I am going to point at the sign and tell them to read it out loud. And when they're done I'll tell them... The next time you knock on my door, I WILL call the police. OR at least sic my shih tzu on you.